My server situation, real life problems, my probable future on this server

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  • #30234
    XeN0Hunter
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    Hello,

    this will probably be one of the few posts I make on this server anymore. So let me begin with why I am making this post. today I get on like usual with one of my “friends” on skype. And long story short, they betray me, I get desperate, i get kicked from the elves. So than I get on teamspeak for probably 1-2 hours, I wasn’t  paying attention. And during this time multiple members inside the teamspeak start what is basically the equivalent of cyber bullying. These people will remain anonymous as I do not want to get people banned. Rather I just want to say this to explain what is going on. These people said multiple things. One of the first was them betting on whether or not i was a squeaker. Afterwards there was a variety of insults and swear words, along with forcing me to pay them to leave my base which one had illegally used a bed spawn in. As I have no proof of this I will not file a report. Afterwards I decided it would be best to leave the teamspeak and the server as all that was left for me was basically the equivalent of cyber bullying, as some of these people which I will not mention have been harassing me for months now. I will now most likely be much less active. I honestly feel as if this may have taken it too far. But who am I to know? Apparently people who are 14 aren’t allowed to play equally with other server members, As its be polite to all players rule is extremely uncontrolled. If the staff can’t get it fixed than maybe just remove it completely. Anyways now that I explained why I am leaving, I am going to explain who I plan to give to my items to. Most of the items I have I will return to captureking. other items I will give to some other people which I feel may need it, others will not be receiving items which I had originally planned to give. Eventually, The base will be given to CallieMav, as the guardian farm was his originally but let me fix it up. As for everything else, I haven’t decided. I hope that this server gets better than its current situation. This server is too demanding and conflicting for my life and has caused an unnecessary amount of stress. I will not be looking back on this post. Any people which I politely wont mention that feel like apologizing can say it here. I don’t think it’s worth playing on a server where it is unfair to certain people on the server who wish to simply want to enjoy it. I would say goodbye, but there’s no need to. Now that I have made this post it has been a relief to myself. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

    Dear lord was I cringey when I was 14

    #30235
    build1115
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    I’m sorry to see you go… Must not have been very good friends if they betrayed/ bullied you. I do hope everything works out in the end and I wish you good luck.

     

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    #30236
    Smokey River
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    Okay, Im going to start off by saying sorry for you “bullying” but please don’t play 100% innocent. I hate to see players leave, but I also do not want to see you belittling staff at the same time. I am not aware of how you are being treated any differently as this has never been brought to my attention. If you would like to elaborate on this you are more than welcome to do so.
    Also as for the betrayal, I remember a said person doing the same thing. Karma tends to follow.

    ?Smokeyriver?

    I solemnly swear I am up to no good.


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    #30238
    Minecraftventura
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    Hello,

    When filling out a complaint, please be sure to use the proper format.

    View post on imgur.com

    Thank you.

    #30243
    Crazy Pirate
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    Really? I understand that the post above might be a little vague, but is there any need to be like that vent?

    This guy has been around for a long while, just a little bit less than me, and if he’s leaving because of ‘harassment’, then something must be up to make him go after such a long time. I’ll admit the above post was a passive aggressive dig at staff and the server, but there must be something causing him to leave that most likely needs to be addressed.

     

    #30245
    otagowill
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    its sad to see you go allidoisdig i will try to make TEM shop in honour of you if you would like to one day come back and see it (if its finished) i will have a hole memorial ready for you

     

     

    i find a way or i make a way wether you like it or not

    baron of the travasen land

    #30249
    BGraph
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    I never knew you very well, intact I believe the only time we talked was when I was renting out the Guardian Farm xD

    Anyways, I am sad to see you go :/

    BGraph

    - Buildy Squad Leader
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    #30250
    Ken
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    TBH this isn’t the first time Ali has filed a harassment type complaint before. I believe the last time I saw conflict arise between Ali and someone he tried getting them banned…. Bravo on Ali for not mentioning names but anyone with a brain can figure out who this may have involved/the people it involved.

    Crazy Pirate just because someone leaves doesn’t mean there is a problem that needs to be addressed. People get upset all the time. Especially when someone gets inside their base and takes their stuff. If it happened to me I would leave for a while too. It blows.

     

    Blaming quitting on the actions of a few players (when the fate of how well you do on this server is completely dependent on who you TRUST and what YOU do to improve your situation) is rediculous. There are claim rules for a reason. If you don’t want to get screwed then don’t trust anyone. That is your option. Blaming someone for turning on you or for being a dick is not a form of harassment its an inside look into someones character. (everyone can mute others, and then hunt them down :P) Albeit minecraft, you learn a lot about people and how they act/treat others.

    Ali I always thought I would get into your base one day unfortunately I did not. I wish you the best and I know we will see you around!

    #30251
    BGraph
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    Hello, When filling out a complaint, please be sure to use the proper format. Thank you.

    I find it sad that when a long term player is leaving you make this post and 6 people, INCLUDING A STAFF MEMBER liked it. This isn’t how we should act when someone is quitting because someone bullied them…

    BGraph

    - Buildy Squad Leader
    - Governor of Vendigroth
    - Founder and Former Emperor of SPQR
    - Former Minister of Justice of the British Empire
    - Current Lord of the British Empire
    - Member of the Conservative Party in the BE Government

    #30253
    koi0001
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    Hello, When filling out a complaint, please be sure to use the proper format. Thank you.

    I find it sad that when a long term player is leaving you make this post and 6 people, INCLUDING A STAFF MEMBER liked it. This isn’t how we should act when someone is quitting because someone bullied them…

    Well I mean you say that yet I liked to quote because it made this thread slightly more uplifting and on another note it is his choice to leave and killing someone isn’t bullying he never really did anything to stop the “unnamed players” from attacking them like maybe attacking back I mean I get its sad and all that he is leaving but I just don’t think he should make a forum like this I mean if anyone was to live I’d hope they try to leave on a good note and do some type of give away or like a raid for fun or something but I mean he probably has his reasons for leaving but if it really was harassment he should of reported them instead of making this forum (I highly doubt it will count as harassment)

    Had to edit because the quote picture messed up

    #30263
    Smokey River
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    A staff member liked it because honestly I addressed it, but I’m going to use this form in the future so I found it amusing. You do not know exactly how much “Butthurt” circulates on this server, and how much staff have to deal with. I addressed his issue with honest facts. I do not care to see a long time player leave. But as some others have put it watch who you trust and this wouldn’t happen.

    ?Smokeyriver?

    I solemnly swear I am up to no good.


    *IF YOU SEE THIS ON YOUR FORUM POST TAKE IT INTO CONSIDERATION*

    -Founder of Crew Savage-
    -Rear Admiral or Super Mod-
    *depends on how you want to view my super powers*

    #30282
    Astrobolt
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    Do you live in the USA? Cyber bullying is a crime. And if you are under 18 you don’t have to ask people to stop at all.

    Leader of the Narwhal Syndicate
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    #30284
    Ken
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    Seriously Astrobolt…. Cyber bullying… Get outside and learn to deal with your conflicts.  Kids are ridiculously soft these days. I feel horrible for the future generations. Kids are going to be escorted into interviews with their parents and if they don’t get jobs they are going to cry. (SMH… If you can’t deal with a little minecraft hardship how are you going to handle losing a job or struggling with real life problems?) Sorry for being rude and to the point. However, let me give you a participation ribbon for your response as you will probably be upset that I disagreed with your comment. The way things are going you will want to be recognized for your awesome response! A for Effort.

     

    I don’t mean to down play cyber-bullying, however the concept is all relative to someones perspective. What I said above could be considered cyber bullying. Honestly, I think that if you feel your life is threatened or you are worried about your health and safety then we can debate cyber bullying. Having someone take your stuff on minecraft isn’t theft and hopefully we don’t get to the point where that too is illegal. Let’s all take note from this and if someone is pissing you off tell them to bugger off and block them. Trust who you want to trust and assume the risk with allowing people into your areas.

    #30285
    Smokey River
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    There is no record of said “Cyberbullying” Unless someone give me proof then there is nothing anyone can do. I cannot go off of word of mouth.

    ?Smokeyriver?

    I solemnly swear I am up to no good.


    *IF YOU SEE THIS ON YOUR FORUM POST TAKE IT INTO CONSIDERATION*

    -Founder of Crew Savage-
    -Rear Admiral or Super Mod-
    *depends on how you want to view my super powers*

    #30289
    Kanube
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    Hey alli, sorry to see ya go, but if you do happen to read this, I would really like to impart just a small bit of what little wisdom i might have.  It is never fun to deal with unpleasant people, but unfortunately, you will run into this many, many more time in life, and we have the power to choose how we want to respond.

    There is a thing called the circle of control.  Imagine a target, and you are at its center. (i’m sure you feel like a target right now anyway 🙂  ) .  The things you can control are only those things in the very center, your self, and the various things you can touch, move, etc. Then, past that are things you may be able to influence, but not control. then there is the last line, beyond which is the area that is the largest, the universe, and that is beyond your reach to control, only observe.

    It can affect you and you can’t change it, but you have control over how you decide to respond, and what you do in the future to allow things to happen to you.  There is an off button to the computer and to teamspeak.  There is life beyond minecraft.  Be empowered to control what you can, influence what makes sense, and accept what you can’t control – not condone, but realize what you can control and what you can’t.

    Remember, the mountain is tall and strong, for the moment, but the river is patient.

     

    Brother Kanube, head of the Order of St. Ender, Watcher of the Void
    ~~~~~ from the dust of the void all is made, and to the void it returns~~~~~

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